The Bible says, "Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge" (Heb. 13:4). Indeed, marriage is honorable and it builds a stable society.
In a well written article Genevieve Wood of the Heritage Foundation writes:
"Families are the building blocks of civilization.
They are personal relationships, but they greatly shape and serve the public good. Strong families make for strong communities. Conversely, family breakdown harms society as a whole.
That’s why America’s declining marriage rate is a real problem.
While on the surface this might not seem like an issue that you and I need to care about, the decline in marriage has a significant impact on each and every one of us—from the amount of taxes we pay to the level of crime in our neighborhoods.
How do we know?
Decades of statistics have shown that, on average, married couples have better physical health, more financial stability, and greater social mobility than unmarried people.
Other studies show that the children of those couples are more likely to experience higher academic performance, emotional maturity, and financial stability than children who don’t have both parents in the home.
The social and economic costs of family breakdown are paid by everyone.
Studies show divorce and unwed childbearing cost taxpayers over $110 billion each year. But the real victims are children.
Children raised in single-parent homes are statistically more likely to abuse drugs and alcohol, exhibit poor social behaviors, and commit violent crimes. They’re also more likely to drop out of school.
And when it comes to fighting poverty, there is no better weapon than marriage. In fact, marriage reduces the probability of child poverty by 80%.
So what can and should be done?
When it comes to public policy, one way government can help is by eliminating the marriage penalty. That’s the part of the tax code where two people are taxed more if they’re married than if they’re single.
Second, government assistance programs should provide temporary help to families in need, not welfare that spans generations. For too long, these programs have encouraged the formation of single-parent families by taking the place of breadwinning fathers or mothers.
But more family-friendly public policies like these are only part of the solution.
Civil society—including community organizations, schools, and places of religious worship—must do its part to make sure the next generation understands the hard facts about the benefits of marriage and the costs of broken families. Armed with that knowledge, people can make better choices.
Marriage remains America’s strongest anti-poverty, anti-crime, pro-health institution. It’s an undeniable fact that the best chances for financial success, emotional well-being, and good health for both parents and children happen when parents are married and families are intact."
And of even greater importance we might conclude, since marriage is a basic tenant of Christianity the nation needs to return wholesale to Bible Christianity in its homes, schools, and churches.
The decline in the marriage rate is just another indicator of the desperate need to raise children in Christianity. Unfortunately, few children are actually raised in a Christian subculture today where Biblical convictions have time to take root. Our at large post Christian culture is training our children to abandon the will of God. The only effective way to counter this influence is to separate children unto a Christian subculture in the home, church, and school.
While we may see what is going on around us, we do not have to conform to what is going on around us! However, strength of character to walk against the course of this world can only be developed in a Christian subculture where such basic ideas as marriage are properly taught and nurtured.
May the Lord give adult Christians everywhere the grace to come out from among the dying culture of the world and once again be strong in the Lord. If enough Christians abandon the world, then in time a strong Christian subculture can once again become the mainstream culture of the nation.